A Guide to Wise Access

$27 • Instant Digital Download • PDF Format

You were taught to be kind, accommodating, and loving but no one taught you how to be wise with access. This guide is about staying open without being careless, loving without being depleted, and stewarding your relationships with wisdom and grace.

Learn to protect your peace without hardening your heart, discern who gets close access to your energy and soul, and create boundaries rooted in biblical principles and practical wisdom.

What's Inside:

• The Core Access Principle – Understand why love is unconditional but access is earned through fruit and patterns

• 7 Essential Nuances – Navigate the difference between connection and access, uncomfortable and unsafe, with biblical principles and action steps

• How to Measure Access – Learn to evaluate relationships by fruit and patterns, not feelings or chemistry

• The Bank Analogy – A practical framework for understanding wise stewardship of your heart

• Weekly ACCESS Check-In – An ongoing practice to stay aligned and intentional about who has close access

This guide is for you if:

You're a giver who's been told you're "too nice"

You're navigating a season of transition and reevaluating relationships

You feel drained or confused after certain interactions and want clarity

You want to love people fully while protecting your sacred spaces

You can be soft and still have strong boundaries. In fact, the softer your heart becomes, the more intentional your boundaries must be—because softness is sacred.

Written by Evelyn Maria Dia, founder of Barre & Be

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